If one had to choose a book to introduce cigar play to the curious novice, Devyn Stone’s Damn! That’s a Nice Ash! is it. Damn! That’s a Nice Ash!, published in early 2020, provides a comprehensive introduction to not just cigars but the kinky play involved. The text is divided into clear and concise sections,Continue reading “Book Review: ‘Damn! That’s a Nice Ash!’ by Devyn Stone”
Greetings friends and followers! I am gonna start doing book reviews on an irregular basis, mostly dictated by my capacity to do so. To kick things off, I am gonna start with one of Devyn Stone’s Quick Reference installations, The Areas of Control! As the series title implies, The Areas of Control is both aContinue reading “Book Review: ‘The Areas of Control’ by Devyn Stone”
Good day friends! Happy New Year to each and every one of you. Whether you are among those who establish their annual resolutions or others who believe each day is a day to begin anew, I think we can all agree that it feels rather nice to have 2020 in hindsight. In the final weeksContinue reading “New Year Salutations and Introducing Sacramento Queer Leather Theirstories”
I am going to do a little something different for this blog post, and this may be a one-off or it may become something of a series of things I do once in a while. What is it? — I’d like to share a handful of readings and interesting things I discover when I doContinue reading “For Your Pleasure vol. 1”
Here are the class notes I took during Sir Guy’s discussion on “The Slave Heart: M/s Myth or Reality.” Thank you to Sir Guy for guiding us on a critical reflection on the oft-romanticized “slave heart,” and to Frost 2020 for hosting and facilitating this opportunity!
Here are the class notes I took during “Rope Care as Service” at Frost 2020. Thank you very much to Niho_Mano and Nkay for the lovely rope demonstration and discussion on service in rope!
Here are the class notes I took during the “Be Your Own Daddy: Radical Self-Care” class at Frost 2020. Thank you to ObsidyenSunshyne for presenting and Frost 2020 for facilitating this wonderful class!
Here’s a link to class notes I took during Devyn Stone’s “Cigar Service 101 & 201” presentation at tonight’s Frost 2020 event. Purchase Devyn Stone’s Cigar Service Text (Print) (Ebook) Contact Info
I happened upon a leather dress today. Caught between two sequin numbers worn through sixteen drunken club escapades, her subtle, graphite hue caught my eye, then my fingers, then my hands. I felt her up and down, and she told my fingers everything and anything they wanted to know. She thirsted for love as theContinue reading “Erotic Vignette: “Leather Dress””
Here’s a link to class notes I took during Dr. TammyJo Eckhart’s “The Power of Love” class with Pragmatically Kinking.